My uncle (Dad's 4th brother) ended his pain and suffering.. Went to a place where there's no illness... I saw the whole process... His heart beat and blood pressure went low... The doctor inject some med which could prolong his life for a while... This process had gone on several times... How I wish I could ask the doc to stop... He's been struggling for many mths... Just let him go peacefully... At ard 11plus his heart beat went zero... I stood outside the room... Saw the doc trying his best to save him.... But failed... The heart beat detection machine cant detect any sign of survival... The doc pronounced him dead...
This is the first time that I saw my dad cried... We wasnt close to my uncle... Since young I dun like his family... They are a bunch of selfish and mean ppl... When my dad's biz failed and was forced to sold his bungalow... Instead of offering him a helping hand, they scolded my mum a jinx... They look down on us... They push the responsibility of looking after my paralyse grandma to my parents when my mum had my younger sister and I was onli 3 years old tat time... Can you imagine that... My mum had to carry my grandma to the toliet and help her to change, bath, clear her bowel despite that she's pregnant... When my uncle decided to send my grandma to the old folk hm... Do you noe how he sent her there??? Bet u all cant imagine this... He put my grandma on the wheel chair... Push her to the back of the lorry.. Tied her... and off he go... WTF... What happen if my grandma fell from the lorry... The wheel chair will move one.. Before my grandma was being sent to the old folk hm... She holded my mum's hand and cried.. Asking her to visit her whenever she can coz my grandma noe that my uncle simply wont care abt her... My uncle wasnt die becoz of illness... The doc had no idea what had causes him to coma for such a long period... Some say it's retribution... How true it is??? I hav no idea... And now his family wanna sue the doc... For dunnoe wat nonsensical reason.. Before he pass away his wife told him that dun listen to those bad guys esp the ANG ANCESTORS... WTF... Wat she means by this... Come on, the money... the bungalow... the comfortable life tat you hav is given by our ANG ANCESTORS... If ya tat FUCKING great... Move out of tat house and dun spent the ANG's money... She wan my dad to send her back and stay there to help out throughout the funeral... My dad he's ok wif it but noe wat she said
Her daughter: Mum, let uncle go back and hav some rest tomolo den come Fucking bitch: Wat, den I'm not tired la.. no need to rest isizz... The house is so big... Wan me to look after such a big house ar...
Hey, you wan my dad to go back wif you becoz u wan him to be ya watching dog huh... LAO CHEE BYE...
Thou we are not in the gd terms wif my uncle's family but after all he's still my uncle... It's quite sad to see him in such a bad condition... Wif all the needles poking in his body... Maybe to him... Death is a release... May you find peace in another world...
So now can u all understand why I'm such a Mummy gal... My mum had done alot for this hm... I wont let anyone to bully... I wan to protect with all my might... No one can bully my mum... Not even my grandma (my mum's mother)... My r/s wif my grandma wasnt as gd as b4... I will quarrel wif her... Becoz I dun like they way she treated my mum... I noe u all might say I hav no respect... But do you noe how my mum tk care of her... My grandma she has this constipation problem... Whenever she feel uncomfortable, my mum will help her to squeeze her shit out or even digged it out for her... But my grandma will accuse her for stealing money, jewellery, pretend to be filial etc... I admit tat she got mentally pro but my heart wasnt big enough to close one eye...
LOVE is SOMETHING u do, SACRIFICES you make & GIVING of self
HER STORY
She's acting strong and confident She won't show any emotion even deep down inside pain and agony Deep down beneath that confident and cold hearted person She is just as fragile as any woman Her bad temper will last very shortly and She is not a revenge type She believe in LOVE and desire being LOVED However real life did disappointed her at times
